So what are you looking for in the person who conducts your wedding ceremony, the marriage officer or wedding celebrant?
Well, obviously, you’re looking for someone who can legalize your marriage. In other words, sign the paperwork, take it to Home Affairs, and make sure that the government knows you’re married. That’s quite important in a wedding ceremony.
But it goes far beyond that.
Perhaps you’re looking for someone who is relatable, someone who will make sure that you’re comfortable and that you and your guests actually enjoy the wedding ceremony. Someone who might have a sense of humor and will connect with you effortlessly.
You’re also looking for someone who will ensure that your guests enjoy the wedding ceremony just as much as the celebration that follows. You don’t want them to feel like the ceremony is something to endure before getting to the reception—you want it all to feel like one seamless, joyful experience.
What else would you be looking for?
Maybe someone who makes you feel at ease. Weddings can be nerve-wracking. We take two people who don’t normally do public speaking and put them in front of all their friends and family, asking them to swear eternal love to each other. That can be a little intimidating.
There’s so much to remember, so much preparation leading up to the day. There are speeches to make, details to finalize, and it can all feel overwhelming.
Part of my job is to ensure that at, least during the ceremony, you feel comfortable and can truly enjoy the moment. I can’t do anything about the reception, but during the ceremony, my focus is on making sure you feel relaxed and present.
We work together to ensure I understand exactly what you want for your wedding ceremony. Once that’s clear, I make it happen. You don’t have to worry about remembering your words or what comes next—I guide you through every part of the ceremony, allowing you to relax and fully enjoy the experience.
Over the last 30 years, I’ve officiated a couple of thousand weddings.
If you feel that I’m the kind of person you’re looking for—someone approachable, someone who listens, and someone who ensures that both you and your guests enjoy the ceremony as much as the celebration afterward—I would love to be part of your special day.
Whatever you choose, I hope you enjoy every moment of planning for your big day.